Number of Homeless Female Veterans is Growing...and Many Have Kids
Friday July 10, 2009
It's an unfortunate fact that military service members experience physical, mental and emotional hardships on the job. But once they're discharged, the aftermath of a tour of duty can bring those hardships back home with them.
The Boston Globe has a little-reported story on the rising number of homeless women veterans, many of them single parents with kids. What's even more disturbing is the fact that although services are in place to help returning vets, many feel that the culture of the Veterans Administration is primarily geared toward addressing the needs of men; therefore, they're having a hard time adjusting to the very different and specific needs of women.
Reader Emails - A Penny for Your Bee Sting?
Friday July 10, 2009

Something arrived in my inbox this week that had the ring of an old wives' tale -- one of those tried and true remedies passed by word of mouth. NJM included me in her list of friends and relatives to whom she forwarded an email that said taping a copper penny to a bee or hornet sting takes the pain, redness, and swelling away.
So many women I know (including my neighbor across the street) spend endless hours gardening; it's one way to unwind. So I had to find out for myself and others -- does this really work?
My go-to guy on all things forwarded via email is David Emery, About.com Urban Legends Guide. He has the full email that's been circulating on the internet since August 2006, and the details on whether or not it works.
Thanks NJM for passing this along.
For me, reader emails are just as much fun as a package from home during summer camp. (You never know what you're going to get, and if the contents are really good, you feel compelled to share.) If you've got something interesting to relate, or a story I should pass along to other readers, here's how you can email me.
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Motherless Children - Why Did Michael Jackson 'Blank' Their Mothers?
Thursday July 9, 2009
Patricia Williams is a Columbia law professor, a columnist for
The Nation, a mother, a woman of color, and an astute observer of human nature who never fails to cut to the heart of the matter. (Her February 2007
"Morning in America" piece beautifully encapsulated the Obama/Clinton race/gender debate within the context of a group of women sharing breakfast.)
Once again, Williams forthrightly tackles what most others dance around in an unblinking examination of the very complex contradictions inherent in Michael Jackson's life, death, media image, and altered reality. In "Mirror Man" she looks at our fascination with him; the terrible childhood abuse his father Joe Jackson still denies dishing out; the "mind-boggling malpractice" that supported his drug abuse and his extreme plastic surgeries; the disturbing allegations that his three children have no biological connection to him; and his even more disturbing need to blank out any presence of a mother in his children's lives:
Their conception was accomplished as a made-to-order, cash-on-the-barrelhead commercial transaction....Reportedly, the women who gestated them carried anonymously donated eggs fertilized by sperm from secret donors....Deborah Rowe, Jackson's ex-wife and the surrogate who carried his oldest two children to term, describes being inseminated "like a horse"; she then received around $9 million to give up any claim to them. On the birth certificate of Jackson's youngest child, the space for "mother" is left blank.
As a nation, we became irate when
Octomom Nadya Suleman used in vitro fertilization to instantly create her longed-for 'large family' without benefit of an involved 'father.' But when Jackson exorcised any presence of a 'mother' from the lives of his two sons and daughter, we accepted his behavior as eccentricity.
Many have voiced their concerns over this, though most (like the author of "Michael Jackson: Talented Yet Troubled" from the blog Mothers Raising Boys) don't have a gig at The Nation as Williams does. In the midst of the frenzy surrounding the extended mourning of the King of Pop, Williams will likely get flak for "Mirror Man." But like all concerned mothers, it's the children she worries about -- the children who called Michael Jackson 'father,' and the child that man once was despite an upbringing that included being held upside down and punched repeatedly by his father.
"He mimed a narrative of constant paradox and infinite suffering," Williams writes about Jackson, and closes with her fears that his three children will end up with their "ignorant, brutish" grandfather. Should that come to pass, if that isn't an example of "constant paradox and infinite suffering" for yet another generation of young Jacksons, then I can't imagine what is.
Related article: Remembering Michael Jackson and the Woman Behind "Man in the Mirror"
She Wants Company - Lone Female Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg Says Another Woman Needed on the Supreme Court
Wednesday July 8, 2009
Let's face it, how much do we know about our seated Supreme Court justices? We may read historical pieces about their background or legal affairs articles analyzing their rulings. But what they think of current events and how they feel about the cases they hear -- well, we're as likely to know that as to see what they're wearing under those voluminous black robes.

That's why it's so refreshing -- and dare I say it, exciting? -- to read Emily Bazelon's extensive, wide-ranging interview with Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg at the New York Times website. (A version of this will be printed in some editions of the July 12, 2009 paper.)
Here's a glimpse: She works out with a personal trainer. She uses a gentle touch to influence her colleagues. At her confirmation hearings in 1993, she hoped there'd be three or four female justices further on down the road. And today, she thinks that "It just doesn’t look right in the year 2009" to have only one woman on the Supreme Court.
Having done some research and writing on Ginsburg earlier, I've always been curious to know more about the sole female justice remaining on the court, the one who's been seen as more quiet than activist. Yet as Bazelon reveals in her four-page Q&A, Ginsburg has a sharp, probing mind and a sensitivity to some cases (such as the strip-search of the 13-year-old girl) that her fellow male justices lack.)
Want to know why another female justice (namely Sonia Sotomayor) is so essential, not only to the Supreme Court but to the well-being of this nation? Read Brazelon's "The Place of Women on the Court."
With nominee Sotomayor's confirmation hearings scheduled to begin next week, I can't think of a more timely article for both women and men to read.
Related articles:
Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Second Woman on the Supreme Court
Sandra Day O'Connor, First Woman on the Supreme Court
History of Women on the Supreme Court
Sonia Sotomayor, Supreme Court Nominee and Possible Third Woman on the Supreme Court